comment on ariels post:
i think that those were both two different stories that just about a lot of people go through. for some, they dont feel like they are ready and when they are scared, they try and take the easy way out by getting rid of it. but at the same time, you have to ask yourself why should i get rid of a life. nobody should be a mistake if it was ment to be then it was ment to be. birth isnt a easy an easy thing to get rid of like anything else. and then on the other hand, a lot of people go through what your second person went through
at times you lose your social life because now you cant go out whenever you please or have just any body over. for the first couple months at least. what i learned based off these two stories is that having a baby is a life changer, and shifts your life in a direction you wouldnt imagine until it happens to you. eventhough you are ready, or not ready, you still dont know what is in store and whats ahead. birth is a powerful level in life that no matter who you are, your going to experience it one way or another.
comment on allwyn's post:
when i read the story about your mom, i laughed at first because my moms story was kind of similar. she gained a bunch of weight and got lil pimples here and there. but other then that i really enjoyed reading her story. it was very spiritual and religious. it sounded like she had her mind set of having babies for a very long time. and she was spiritually guided by God through the pregnancys. as if she was the happiest woman on the earth. but did she feel like that with every birth experienced she had?..with each child, did she have different feelings and emotions, or the same for each one?
one thing that i learned from the stories is that birth is something that is "holy". that God will accept every birth that happens in the world and when in doubt or in pain, turning to God is something positive and will always help the woman along the way to having a healthy baby. religion is always a positive answer to birth.
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