Monday, February 28, 2011

homework 36

so i asked my friend what was her birth like. she said "its very life changing and painful but i do it all over again to see my baby boy and hold him again because when you see that baby you made, you are so happy." she has a 17month old baby boy. she said the hardest part was the labor. "it was very hard and painful. i was in labor for 15hours because my son wasnt coming out." but by the time he came out, she forgot about all of that pain she went through just to physically see him for the first time. she was very thrilled. so i asked would this time around, would she be more prepared then the last time, and she said "i would do it all over again and this time i'm more prepared and ready." now she is pregnant with her second child and its a little more complicated. but she cant wait until she sees it for the first time.

my moms story with me was a little similar. she was in labor with me for 17hours and it was very difficult for her. no matter how hard she would push, i was not moving. she started catching a fever, which ment that i was catching one too, so they had no choice but to do a c-section to get me out. after she couldn't see me or touch me for a couple hours because they had to make sure i was okay. but she said she has never been more excited in her whole life than to lay there in pain for 17hours trying to deliver me to the world. she wouldn't do it again but it was a life changing experience and is blessed to have given a life.

the last person i interviewed said that it was very painful, it was nerverecking and wished the pain would stop. she had birth complications. her babies feet were coming out first so they had to turn him around. all she could thimk about was her and the baby going to survive. it was a extreme mind blowing experience. she said that she would do it all over again but hopes that there will be no complications this time around.

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

homework 34

birth is a special beautiful thing most couples could possibly go through. birth is the event of yet another human being coming into the world. they say that a person is born every 10 seconds and a person dies every 30. birth is a procreation of life. it all starts with the the water breaking and the women going through possibly hours of labor. she has to sit there in a lot of pain for her to diolate to 10cm, and then start pushing until the baby is crowning. most of the time the mother is then happy its all over with and now has a beautiful baby boy or girl.

but then there goes the cons about birth. for some, birth is a rememberence of what happened to them. for example rape. girls get rapped and end up pregent, but dont believe in abortions, they give birth to the baby. but now everytime they see that kid, they remember how they was concieved. another senario is if its a teen couple and they accidently get pregnent, they would give the baby up for adoption. the women has to go through hours of pain to then give the baby up to another family.

in my family birth is a good thing. the whole family gets excited and is filled with joy. they help each other out and do for each other. they go and visit each other more often than what we would normally do.